A Valiant Heart

By Lisa Fitts
By Herbert Yoo
By Cymone Canada
By Dave Grogan
By Arnie Fenton
By Dan Millner
By Alex Joseph
By Samantha Harton
By Bailey Catone
By Colin Campbell
By Barb Harris
By Mark Mercer
By Sereena Bexley
By Vennecia Jackson
By Mary Lata Thottukadavil
By Michael Agnew
By Kristie Davis
By AJ Jerkins
By Caroline Smiley
By Kathy Whitthorne
By Dawn Johnson
By DJ Newman
By Mary Weyand
By Rob Nickell
By Kathy Whitthorne
By Nila Odom
By Sherene Joseph Rajadurai
By Kristi Sheffy
By Sharon Arrington
By Sarah Crawford
By Betsy Paul
By Angel Piña
By Elizabeth Piña
By Chris Kuykendall
By Matt Holland
By Jessie Yearwood
By Brian Severski
By Brian Arrington
By Will Meier
By Clint Calhoun
By Jen Mayes
By Jim Henry
By Kevin Harwood
By Leah Vanhorn
By Janett Miller
By Isaac Harris
By Chad Golden
By Jonathan Cortina
By Kuruvilla (K.O.) Oommen
By John Dyer
By Abe Paul
By Lauren Geppert
By Jennifer Durrett
By Jill Asibelua
By Jared Barnett
By Paul Martin
By Norm Headlam
By Kristi Herring
By Sissy Mathew
By Shannon Pugh
By Al Palamara
By Michelle Garza
By Armando Galvan
By Camille Holland
By Rod Myers
By Crystal Elwell
By Darcy Peterson
By Jason Elwell
By Barry Jones
By Bryan Eck
By Tricia Kinsman
By Craig Pierce
By Jim Woodward
By Andy McQuitty
By Kevin Dial
By Corbin Pierce
By Claire St. Amant
By Julie K. Rhodes
By Anonymous
By Jasmine Bibbs
By Debra Fournerat
By Kat Armstrong
By Jeffery Link
By Courtney Faucett
By Lenae Moore
By Tiffany Stein
By Andy Webb
By Catherine Boyle
By Catherine & Elizabeth Downing
By Gerald Ridgway
By Jill Hoenig
By Sunitha John
By Tarrin Henry
By RozeLee Rugh
By Beverly Hogan
By Kendra Cordero
By Lisa Gajewski
By Bonnie Goree
By Young-Sam Won
By Chris Beach
By Tom Rugh
By Nick Vuicich
By Andy Franks
By Lead Team
By Jason Roszhart
By Harvard Medical School
By Justin K. Hughes, MA, LPC
By Sherene Joseph
By Earl Davidson
By Rebecca Perry
By Joe Padilla
By Christian Melendez
By Bruce Riley
By Isaac Harris
By Amy Leadabrand
By Ben Haile
By Shaun Robinson
By Natalie Franks
By Cathy Barnett
By Ryan Sanders
By Casey Pruet, The Grace Alliance
By Sharon Arrington
By Lauren Chapin
By Betsy Paul
By Alberto Negron
By Kelly Jarrell
By Michelle Mayes
By Jenn Wright
By Jill Jackson
By Terri Moore
By Robyn Wise
By Katherine Holloway
By Richard Ray
By Kurtlery Knight
By Bruce Hebel
By Neil Tomba
By Tony Bridwell
By Grayson McGovern
By Luke Donohoo
By Kathy Whitthorne
By Mike Moore
By Wade Raper
By Mike Gwartney
By Jo Saxton
By Dieula Previlon
By Jonathan Cude
By Ken Lawrence
By Jay Hohfeler
By Barb Haesecke
By Lindsay Casillas
By JoAnn Hummel
By Shawn Small
By Alice McQuitty
By Jonathan Murphy
By Peggy Norton
By Brent McKinney
By Irving Bible Church
By Irving Bible Church
By Ashley Tieperman
By Betsy Nichols
By Trey Grant
By Debbie Lucien
By Sue Edwards
By Suzie Robinson
By Paul Smith

Carrie Gurley was at home with her kids one day when the doorbell rang. Three women were waiting on her porch. “We were told to come see you,” they said. They were strippers in a club in Fort Worth, and had been to a local church to take a financial class. They were worried about going back. What if they saw customers there? What if everyone could tell what they were? “We need to know about God,” they said, “but we feel like we can’t go back to church. So we were told to come see you.”

Thus began Carrie’s fight against the exploitation of women, children, and men in DFW’s thriving sex industry.

Five years later, Carrie was introduced to Polly, the founder of We Are Cherished, a monthly outreach that began in 2010 to bring gifts, love, and hope to the women in the strip clubs of Dallas and Fort Worth. It then grew into a support group for women in the industry and those who’ve moved out of it.  “When God brings three strippers to your door, you don’t have to wonder if there’s a calling on your life to help these women,” Carrie laughs. She began with We Are Cherished as a volunteer while she completed her counseling degree, then became a case manager. In 2014, Carrie was asked to be its executive director.

Since that time, Carrie and her team have expanded the vision to reach out not only to the women caught in the midst of sexual exploitation, but also to offer freedom and restoration to those perpetuating the cycle. The mission was clear: a holistic approach for everyone affected by this problem.

With this new vision came a new name — Valiant Hearts.

The need in DFW is pressing. According to Valiant Heart’s web site, Texas is ranked #2 in human trafficking cases with an average of 400 underage teens working the streets every night. The average age a girl a girl enters the sex trade is 13. “That’s why God is calling his people,” Carrie says. “The world cannot help with that level of evil. It has to be the Lord.”

The name Valiant Hearts describes those brave enough to start the journey toward healing and freedom, as well as those working to combat this evil. This includes men battling sexual addiction, students being targeted for trafficking, mothers of children who have been exploited, and a growing international population from ministry partners in Iraq and Scotland. Valiant Hearts has also developed a training manual for churches to begin their own support groups. 

Carrie says Valiant Heart’s main focus is still the strip clubs as it was in the early days, reaching 1,500 women in all 40 of DFW’s strip clubs. A lot of the women are prostituted through the clubs, so that’s the best place to reach most of them.

According to Carrie, 85% of the women who participate in Valiant Heart’s support group leave the industry. “It’s not because we have some magic formula,” Carrie says. “It’s because they’ve encountered the love of Jesus.” She can always tell if it’s a woman’s first time at a support group because she will cry through the meeting. “She’ll say, ‘I’ve never felt this kind of love before.’ Then the counterfeit is exposed. This is where the appetite for the true love of Jesus begins.”

Carrie’s heart is also to eradicate the porn industry, which feeds and populates trafficking and club culture. Carrie understands the devastation on a very personal level; her father is currently imprisoned for child molestation, which began as a porn addiction. “This sin will take you places you never thought you’d go,” he’s told her.

Carrie says we can’t expect men and women addicted to porn to find freedom from it alone. “The shame isolates you. Freedom won’t happen until we create a safe place and have ongoing support that won’t leave, judge or condemn you but speak truth and believe in you.” Valiant Hearts provides support groups for those looking to break the cycle of porn bondage.

In an effort to go deeper into our parish and bring transformation to individuals and our city, IBC has chosen to shift our partnering focus from New Friends New Life to Valiant Hearts, which has plans to expand its ministry into Irving. (There are more strip clubs in a 10-mile radius in Irving than anywhere else in the metroplex.) On October 22, IBC will be welcoming Carrie to a special lunch where she will give a more comprehensive overview of the ministry and share how IBCers can get involved, especially with the new Cherished support group which starts at IBC in January. 

Back to Carrie’s front porch in 2006. She opened her door and invited the women inside. For the next several months, they came to Carrie’s house every Tuesday night, legal pads in hand, to ask questions about God. Two of the women eventually left the industry, but one didn’t. She had a disabled daughter and couldn’t find a way out for financial reasons. She eventually lost touch with Carrie.

In the years since, whenever Carrie visits the clubs, that woman is always on her mind. “She broke my heart,” Carrie says. “She’s the one I still look for.” 

For more information, visit valianthearts.org.

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